# ObeyMe

> The private app for two people who run their dynamic on purpose. Defined roles, daily check-ins, shared rituals, and one channel for just the two of you. One subscription covers you both.

ObeyMe is an iPhone app for exactly two consenting adults (18+) who want structure in their dynamic: defined roles, daily check-ins, shared tasks and rituals, and one private messaging channel. There is no public feed, no discovery and no way for strangers to make contact. One subscription covers both partners, not one seat each.

Status: in development, iPhone first, Android next. Join the waitlist at https://obeymeapp.com/#join

## How it works

1. **Pair** One invite code connects exactly two people. No feeds, no discovery, no strangers. Your space is yours alone.
2. **Define** Choose your roles, set your rituals, agree your terms. Change them whenever life does. The app bends to your shape.
3. **Live it** Daily check-ins, shared tasks, private messages. The structure you designed, kept alive a few minutes at a time.

## Features

- **Roles that fit you**: Every dynamic has its own shape. Pick the roles that match yours, swap them when life changes, and let the whole app adapt around them.
- **Daily check-ins**: Customizable questions, a few intentional minutes a day. Small things stay small when you surface them on purpose.
- **Tasks and rituals**: Assign, schedule, and complete the routines that hold your household together, with proof you both can see.
- **A private channel**: Messaging built for two, away from the noise of every other app on your phone. Just you, just them.

## Pricing

One subscription covers the pairing, not the person.

- Monthly: $9.99 per month for both partners
- Yearly: $79.99 per year for both partners (most chosen)
- Lifetime: $199.99 one time for both partners

## Frequently asked questions

### Do we both have to pay?

No. One subscription covers the pairing, so whichever of you subscribes, you both get the full experience. Plenty of apps in this space charge each person separately. Charging twice for one dynamic never made sense to us.

### Who is ObeyMe for?

Two consenting adults, 18 or older, who want intentional structure for their dynamic: defined roles, shared expectations, and daily communication. Married, partnered, or an arrangement that is entirely your own. If you run it on purpose, this is your app.

### Is it private?

Completely. There is no public feed, no discovery, and no way for strangers to contact you. You pair with one known partner via an invite code, and everything you create is visible only to the two of you.

### What if our dynamic changes?

Then the app changes with you. Roles can be swapped, agreements edited, and the partnership can be reset or ended at any time by either person. Everything is opt-in and everything is revocable.

### Is my data safe?

Your data belongs to you. We don't sell personal information, there is no ad tracking, and you can delete your account and its data entirely from inside the app. Details live in our Privacy Policy.

### When is Android coming?

iPhone first, Android next. Reach out through the contact page and you'll hear the day it ships.

## More

- [Privacy Policy](https://obeymeapp.com/privacy.md)
- [Terms of Service](https://obeymeapp.com/terms.md)
- [Contact](https://obeymeapp.com/contact.md)